There is a big difference between an ISSUE and a PROBLEM. If you can get M.A.D. (Make A Decision) to fix it or pay to correct it; it is an issue. A problem is irreversible; like when somebody dies or has a debilitating disease. An issue is an opportunity to make me greater. A loser sees an issue complains and cries about it. The loser’s loser children will complain about their parent’s issues and want people to feel sorry for them. By then, all of them will compound even more issues and say things like:
I can't
I couldn't
I should of
It was their fault
It is not my fault
I have no time
I am repressed
My family is repressed
My race is repressed
My ancestors were repressed
A Winner will see an issue, think about it (sharpening their brain), and decide on a course of action that will correct the situation and implement it. Then the winner becomes smarter, stronger, and wealthier, while the loser is still talking about why they failed. Even if the winner fails, the winner will take away knowledge of the issue to help them solve their next issue in the future.
A loser sees an issue, gets angry, complains, blames, and then gives up. The loser then tells stories about their failure. The loser tries to make it more interesting and sound like they had less control than they had so they can get attention. Losers crave attention.
A halfway loser realizes their failure can turn into a song. Songs are great because they are a catchy way of telling a story. Since society is full of losers and rejects, they can relate. Becoming a failure is now a cool new type of view that relates to other losers. Even people who are not truly losers will try to become losers to fit in with the plenty of losers in the world. This is when the true winner shines! The true winner sees the losers, understands they are losers, and why they are that way, and creates a situation that will make them succeed. When the losers see this, they get angry. They begin to say they are repressed by the winner and the winner is keeping them down. When in fact the loser could have done the same thing, but their loser MINDSET did not allow that course of action.
It is important to feel strongly about something and move forward because every hour spent on being loud about losing is an hour taken away from being your positive psychology. If you spend an hour developing your body and mind, you become a better person and a stronger and smarter person. Strong, loyal, and smart people can make changes because they end up on the top. People at the top make the rules. People at the bottom complain and when you spend your time complaining, you don’t make progress.